
Coaching with Heather: more FAQs
Here are answers on how I work, my communication style, how to prepare for sessions, and if one-on-one is really needed (or would be a good fit for you).

Here are answers on how I work, my communication style, how to prepare for sessions, and if one-on-one is really needed (or would be a good fit for you).

I’m answering common questions on how I approach (or don’t) goals, structure between sessions, homework, and accountability.

Here’s a little intro to Heather of Autism Chrysalis, a bit about me and what I do.

When people tell you they want the truth, but then get mad or defensive or say it’s fine but things are weird between you later, here’s what I think is really going on.

How do you tell if people really want honesty or not? Here are a few tips, and some relief for when you get it wrong.

I’d like to talk a bit about the first step to figuring out what you want.

This is a very personal reflection on the overwhelm of a life transition in the time between who I am and who I will be.

I want to talk a bit about the difference between accepting what is and resigning oneself to what is.

Getting enough energy back to keep masking isn’t true burnout recovery.

Is there something you want to do, but part of you says you can’t? I’d like to talk about that.

Here’s an example of how questioning painful thinking can push back against our internalized, negative and painful thought patterns, and give us back energy.

A response to a conversation on social media reminded me of a way of thinking that I’d like to discuss.