Blog - Autism Chrysalis

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Burnout

Autistic Burnout Recovery Course Now Available!

My long-awaited autistic burnout recovery course is now available! We start September 7th, 2004. Here’s a brief overview and links to learn more.

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Self-Reg

Why You Can’t Get Your Needs Met By Setting Boundaries

Most people don’t understand this one thing when they try to set boundaries. But getting good at this can improve both how you get your needs met, and your relationships.

Acceptance

How To Build Self-Trust

I occasionally ask about physical sensations when coaching, and there’s a very specific reason for that. Here’s how simply asking starts to build self-trust.

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Anxiety

How People Pleasing Prevents Positive Relationships

Autistic people-pleasing includes plenty of downsides, but have you thought of the positives that it prevents?

Autism

Disclosing Autism: Understanding People’s Reactions to Disclosing you’re Autistic

People can often have upsetting reactions when you tell them you’re Autistic. Here’s why I think those reactions happen, and why it doesn’t have to be the end.

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Acceptance

Is It Perfectionism?

I’ve been reflecting on my relationship with perfectionism, and if that’s even the best word for what I experience.

Acceptance

What’s wrong with them?

When you have relationship troubles, it’s so easy to default to asking “what’s wrong with me?” Instead, sometimes it’s worth asking, “what’s wrong with them?”