• Do you find it easier to have compassion for other people’s limitations, but the thing that’s completely understandable in someone else is laziness or weakness when it’s you?
  • Are you only now starting to grieve how hard you’ve been on yourself — for holding yourself to a standard that was never built for your brain, and that you were never given the right tools for?
  • Has your whole life been organized around hiding what you can’t do and overperforming what you can — and are you exhausted by how much that has cost you?

Most recent articles on ableism and autistic internalized ableism

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Neuro-Ableism

Learn how subtle daily messages like “just try harder” and “you’re too sensitive” are forms of internalized neuro-ableism that neurodivergent people, especially Autistics, absorb and turn against themselves.

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