Learn At Your Own Pace

Heather’s DIY courses on targeted topics around
building your autism-positive life.

AuDHDers: Work For Yourself Without Burning Out

FYI, the next live course will be for self-employed AuDHDers on how to Work For Yourself Without Burning Out

Coming soon.

Sign up here to get the details delivered to you as soon as enrollment opens. No executive function required. 🙂 Your future self will thank you.

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(Everything else on this page are DIY courses you can do at your own pace, as your energy allows.)

Get out of autistic burnout permanently

  • Scope In depth

    This is a deep dive, but is broken into small, manageable chunks.

  • Course length ~ 6 months

    The live course was originally scheduled over 6 months. Individual times vary considerably. Now available on demand.

  • Cost $500

    Participants consistently report that this is a life-transforming experience.

This is for you if:

If you're Autistic and exhausted in a way that rest doesn't fix, from decades of masking, managing, and trying to function “normally."

If you can't stand the thought of going through another round of burnout, recover, burnout.

What it'll do:

This in a deep dive into the root causes of autistic burnout, and a practical system for making the changes necessary for truly sustainable recovery, without making your life any smaller, and even when you can’t quit your responsibilities.

How to recover from autistic burnout, break the cycle so you never have to go through it again, and create a life that actually works for your brain, your body, and your whole self.

Anxiety techniques that work for Autistic brains

  • Scope In depth

    This is a deep dive, but is broken into small, manageable chunks.

  • Course length 9 hours

    The live course was originally scheduled over 4 weeks. Now available on demand in 4 modules. 9 total hours of video content.

  • Cost $150

    Participants consistently report that this is much more helpful than expected (based on previous experiences).

This is for you if:

You get stuck so you can send that email, say what you really want, if you freak out when the unexpected happens, and ruminate about every mess up forever.

If you’re looking for anxiety relief that actually works for Autistics and AuDHDers. (Even when other advice hasn't worked in the past.)

What it'll do:

This is both practical techniques to deal with both immediate overwhelm, and also how to deconstruct the underlying thought patterns that keep the rumination going, and the guilt, and shame, and negative self-talk.

So that over time, your ability to deal with difficult things increases, and your background anxiety level decreases.

How much is ableism affecting your Autistic or AuDHD life? Here's how to tell, and what to do about it.

  • Scope Overview

    This is an informative exploration of the topic, with steps for how to continue.

  • Course length 3 hours

    The recorded workshop is 2.5 hours, plus about .5 hours for the self-assessment. Now available on demand.

  • Cost $25

    Participants consistently report that this produces personal insights that they have incorporated into their life.

This is for you if:

If you've been noticing ableism more and more in your life, thoughts, and the systems around you, and want to learn how to undo its effects.

If you’ve been noticing the term more often and want to better understand what it is, and if it has wormed its way into your subconscious thinking.

What it'll do:

Learn what ableism and internalized ableism are, specifically in the context of an adult Autistic/ AuDHD/ neurodivergent life, with real life examples. And peek behind the curtain to see how you were trained to discriminate against yourself.

Learn how it breeds negative self-talk, brain fog, how it impacts socializing, work, rest, autistic burnout, etc.

Learn the 4 steps it takes to dismantle IA from your life.

Then dive in deeper with a 120-question IA self-asessment designed to help you become more aware of how much neuro-ableism is affecting you.

Get in touch with your body without overwhelm. Gentle sensory awareness prompts.

  • Scope Intro

    This is a gentle exploration, without assuming any comfort or skills in noticing body sensations.

  • Course length 90 Days

    You get an email a day for 3 months.

  • Cost $15+

    Pay what you choose, from $15+. (Suggested $20-$30.)

This is for you if:

If you’re looking for a way to figure out your own sensory needs, beyond earplugs and sunglasses, but aren’t sure what your sensory needs even are.

If you've been trained to ignore your internal signals in order to be safe or accepted or get along, and now you want more for yourself.

If you want to get better at knowing what’s going on inside your own body — maybe you’ve even heard about “interoception” — but don't know how.

What it'll do:

A series of daily prompts will teach you how to check in with a variety of sensory experiences that we tend to ignore on a daily basis. That our culture teaches us to ignore.

Gradually, over time, this noticing can subtly increase your own internal awareness at other times as well. And when you need something, and what.

And because you’re getting words for these experiences from the prompts, you may start describing what’s going on better, both to yourself and to others.

Learn how to better support Autistic adult coaching and therapy clients. And how to be a good ally when your client discloses they are Autistic.

  • Scope Overview

    This is an informative exploration of the topic, with resources for how to continue learning.

  • Course length 1 hour 30 minutes

    The recorded workshop is 1 hour 30 minutes. Now available on demand.

  • Cost $25

    Participants consistently report that this was more insightful than they expected.

This is for you if:

You are a life coach who has clients who are, or you suspect might be, Autistic.

While this is geared toward coaches, the principles can be easily applied to therapists, SLPs, PTs, educators, healthcare workers, and other helping professionals.

If you want to be a good ally when your client discloses they are Autistic, and want some practical, and often simple, ways to adapt your approach to connect better with your clients, to be more effective at the work you do.

What it'll do:

Learn how autism actually shows up in adult lives. Not the stereotypes or the childhood-focused diagnostic criteria, but the real, lived experience of Autistic adults—including some things you might not expect.

Learn how to be a strong ally when clients disclose, and how to respond in ways that are respectful and supportive.

Learn how autism can influence the coaching relationship, with practical strategies for common coaching scenarios.

This is an insider’s perspective from an Autistic, ADHD, and multiply-neurodivergent coach, through a trauma-sensitive lens.

Learn healthier strategies to deal with holiday stress and drama.

  • Scope Overview

    This is an informative exploration of the topic, with steps for how to continue on your own.

  • Course length 1 hour 45 minutes

    The recorded workshop is 1 hour 45 minutes. Now available on demand.

  • Cost $25

    Participants consistently report that this produces personal insights that has helped them get through the holiday season.

This is for you if:

If holidays are a stressful time for you, if you have complicated or difficult relationships with family, and you're autistic or otherwise neurodivergent.

What it'll do:

Learn healthier ways to deal with stress and drama this holiday season, that work for your neurowonderful brain and individual needs.

Learn how to identify your specific personal stressors.

Identify which of the 3 types of unhealthy coping strategies you tend towards, and the course correction for each strategy.

Plan healthy stress management this holiday, and how to adjust your plan as needed.

Use tapping to deal with the stress, noise, lights, and unpredictability of fireworks.

  • Scope Do-it-with-me

    This is a guided practice in real time that you can do along with the demo.

  • Course length 50 minutes

    The recorded workshop is 50 minutes. Now available on demand.

  • Cost $25

    Participants consistently report feeling better by the end of the guided practice, that it has lasting effects, and coming back to use it whenever they need to.

This is for you if:

If fireworks are stressful or triggering for you.

If you have difficulties with the sudden noises, unpredictability, bright lights, or other sensory issues, painful associations, or PTSD triggers.

What it'll do:

Use EFT tapping to deal with the stress of fireworks. Learn how to regulate the nervous system to deal better with the noises, lights, unpredictability, and all that comes with it.

Use this while fireworks are going off, or over the days and weeks beforehand to deal with the stress of knowing they are coming.

Designed by and for Autistic, AuDHD, and other neurodivergent humans, through a trauma-sensitive lens.