
Is It Anxiety or a Bad Situation?
When being faced with genuinely awful situations, it can be hard to tell if what you’re struggling with is anxiety or just your reaction to the terrible situation itself.

When being faced with genuinely awful situations, it can be hard to tell if what you’re struggling with is anxiety or just your reaction to the terrible situation itself.

Anxiety and sensory stuff can be difficult to pick apart, so I’d like to talk a bit about them and how they can intersect.

Once you discover your autism, you may realize just how severed the connection to yourself is, but it is possible to get in touch with yourself; to learn to trust your instincts better.

I occasionally ask about physical sensations when coaching, and there’s a very specific reason for that. Here’s how simply asking starts to build self-trust.

Here’s an explanation on how being aware of your body’s signals helps you manage your energy.

I’d like to talk a bit about the first step to figuring out what you want.

How do you follow the advice to integrate sensory awareness when you’re not getting info from your body?

A common experience with later identified Autistics who start figuring out all the sensory stuff that they’ve been shutting out, is that instead of things getting better, everything is more annoying.

Lots of us are trained as we grow up to ignore our internal signals of what we need. There’s a lot of different aspects in there to unpack, and I’m going to address one of them.

To be able to work through a problem you’re facing, you need to start questioning what the issue is in a new way.

A lot of times there’s a fear that if you increase internal awareness you’ll just make things worse, but you can avoid that.

Do you find it difficult to answer questions like, “what do you want?” or “what do you need?” Here’s my take on what’s going on.