Blog - Autism Chrysalis

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Personal Growth

Try This Secret for Falling Asleep Faster

I’ve had difficulty falling asleep almost my entire life. Turns out that is common for autistic individuals. Lots of sleep tips are great. Here’s one you might not have heard.

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Sensory

Sensory Toys Can Be Anything

With more and more sensory specific products on the market, it can feel like you have to shell out money for sensory regulation. Don’t forget what you already have handy.

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Society

A Few Thoughts on Labels

There’s a lot of controversy around labels. Some people love them, some hate them. I’m somewhere in the middle.

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Self-Advocacy

This is Why Honesty Really is the Best Policy

We are socialized not to complain, but sometimes that means not telling people what we need. I have been getting better at saying what I need, and finding out that people can help.

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Acceptance

A Dentist and A Dinosaur

A recent trip to the dentist was both a harrowing experience and a moment of acceptance.

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Self-Reg

After trying a range of activities to see how each made your body feel, did you notice anything unexpected? Did some that you associate with relaxing not actually have that relaxing effect? Here’s why.

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Autism

A Challenging Behavior Vanishes

I have long maintained that behavior is a symptom. A recent revelation in my own life led to my own challenging behavior instantly vanishing, once I got to the root of the issue.

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Autism

Recognizing Stress is Complicated When You Can’t Tell What Your Body Feels

How do you figure out where your kid’s stress is coming from, when they aren’t even sure of what they are feeling?

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Self-Reg

Stimming and Autistic Stress

Stimming is both a physical expression of stress—either bad stress or good stress—and it’s a way to help us calm down.

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ABA

The Worst Testimonial I’ve Ever Read

We want to raise kids to be independent, but when they’re fighting you at every turn, it’s so easy to succumb to the seduction of a child who’ll just do what you tell them.